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How to Surprise a Customer on Their Birthday: Strategy Examples

Date: 2025-09-04 | Time of reading: 12 minutes (2161 words)
Background

A birthday is one of the most emotional occasions of the year. It’s not just a date—it’s an opportunity for a brand to show care and attention, and in return, gain profit. A well-crafted birthday greeting not only delights the customer but also strengthens loyalty, increases engagement, and can even drive sales.

Here’s how to congratulate customers wisely without slipping into clichés.

Why Should a Brand Send Birthday Greetings

Let’s start by understanding why we should congratulate customers in the first place.

Strengthening the connection. When a brand remembers an important date, the customer feels valued. A thoughtful birthday message shows that you care. This is the first step toward building a loyal audience with a high lifetime value (LTV).
Emotional connection builds trust and shapes a positive image — you’re not just a faceless company, but a brand that’s present during meaningful moments. This is especially valuable in an age of information overload and fierce competition for attention.
An opportunity to connect. A birthday is a perfect, non-intrusive, and appropriate reason to reach out to a customer. Unlike direct promotional emails, this kind of touchpoint is perceived positively: you're not selling — you're celebrating.
Driving purchases. On their birthday, people are more inclined to treat themselves — to buy something special they’ve been wanting. A discount or bonus from a familiar brand at that moment is the perfect incentive to make a purchase.

Take advantage of this mood and offer the customer something valuable and enjoyable—even if it’s something small. The key is that the bonus should be easy to use, like a free dessert for the birthday person.

Choose gifts that are simple to redeem, increasing the likelihood that the customer will make a purchase during their special moment.

Boosting conversion. Well-designed birthday campaigns tend to show high CTR and ROI, as people are more inclined to shop on their birthday.

Crafting an Effective Birthday Message for Your Customer

Subscribers know that your birthday messages are sent automatically, and that doesn’t bother them. But boring, generic emails are still a bad idea. If you're preparing your email campaign in advance, make it more engaging and creative. Congratulate with thoughtfulness and real value.

Think about the customer. Imagine your own inbox, flooded with emails: ads, spam, work, personal messages. Do you really want yet another meaningless email? Make sure your birthday message brings real value to the person. Plan a gift, a special offer, a discount — anything that can genuinely delight them.
Define your goals. A birthday greeting shouldn’t be just a polite gesture. It should serve your business by warming up your audience and driving sales.
Add personalization. If you offer something truly unique, created specifically for that individual, the chances it will be received with warmth and joy increase significantly.

Always address the customer by name — it creates a sense of personal connection, even if the message is templated. If you recommend products or offers that are tailored specifically to that person, the impact will be much greater.

For example, in your birthday message, you could not only greet the customer by name but also suggest relevant items — ready-made meals, drinks, or ingredients for a special dinner.
Avoid clichés. Forget the standard "wishing you happiness and health" — these kinds of greetings are too generic and often don’t feel sincere coming from a brand. Study your audience and their values to make the message feel unique. Sometimes, the right gift speaks louder than words.

If you want the message to feel personal rather than like part of a mass email, consider sending it on behalf of an employee or company leader.

Create an appealing design. Beautiful birthday templates always generate more interest and evoke positive emotions.

A beautifully designed birthday greeting with interactive elements is more memorable than the rest — especially when it includes promo codes and bonus points.

If you're delighting subscribers with generous offers, it's best to clearly state how long the promotion is valid. A good idea is to add a countdown timer to create urgency.

Segment your audience. If your customers are diverse, create multiple versions of the email for different segments. This way, you can offer relevant bonuses or promotions.
For example, a jewelry brand might offer a “2 for the price of 1” deal on trendy silver pieces to customers aged 20–25, and a discount on classic gemstone jewelry sets to customers aged 40 and up.

This approach requires more effort: you'll need to prepare subscriber lists and different email templates. But personalized offers significantly increase the likelihood of purchases. And that's the level worth aiming for in email marketing.

Send birthday greetings in advance. Sometimes it's better to send a birthday email before the actual day. Many customers wait for special offers to buy something they need. On the day itself, your message might go unnoticed or no longer be relevant.
Don’t repeat yourself. Sending the same birthday message every year is a sure way to lose loyalty. At the very least, change the text or design — ideally, update the gift too.
Focus on the customer, not your brand. Keep the message simple — include no more than one or two offers. A birthday greeting should feel like a card, not a catalog.
Set up trigger-based emails to ensure birthday greetings arrive on time. With Altcraft Platform, automated personalized emails are easy to configure.

Using the marketing platform, you can automate not only birthday greetings but the entire customer communication cycle — including email, push notifications, and SMS.

Use multiple channels. Don’t rely on email alone. The more varied your touchpoints, the higher the chances your birthday greeting will be noticed and remembered.

For short messages, consider:

  • Text messages — fast, simple, and doesn’t require an internet connection.
  • Push notification — perfect for mobile apps.
An example of how to use multiple channels:
  • Email with a promo code.
  • Push notification on the birthday: “Your gift is waiting inside — take a look!”
  • SMS two days later: “Only 3 days left to use your promo code.”

This way, you’re not only congratulating the customer but also effectively increasing your reach.

Birthday Greeting Ideas: From Simple to Impressive

1. Limited-time promo code — a foolproof classic. Customers always appreciate discounts and special offers — it’s often the main reason they subscribe to newsletters and keep reading them. This format is not only a nice gesture but also encourages quick action.
2. Bonus points in the loyalty program. Most customers expect exactly this. Award bonus points for their birthday — with no strings attached, just because. This kind of gift instantly creates a positive impression of your brand and strengthens trust.
3. Free access to a premium service. If you offer paid features or subscriptions, give the customer free access for a limited time — for example, one month in honor of their birthday. It’s not only a thoughtful gift but also a great way to showcase the value of your premium offering and increase the chance of future subscriptions.

Alternatively, offer a discount on premium features or useful tools. Yes, it may be seen as less valuable than a direct gift, but it still holds meaning.

4. Virtual scratch card with a surprise. Add a bit of excitement for your customer. Let them “scratch” a digital card to reveal what they’ve won — a discount, bonus, or gift. It’s an interactive and memorable format.
5. Personalized video greeting. If you want to show extra care to your customer, create a short video from your team or brand mascot. This format not only surprises but also strengthens the emotional connection with your brand.

It’s ideal for special customers, active users, or members of premium programs. Segment your audience and prepare a few versatile videos that will still feel personal.

6. Personally curated gifts. This is a way to show the customer that your brand knows and values their tastes. Put together special recommendations or a selection of products based on their preferences and purchase history.
7. Surprise gift with an order. Without any prior notice, include a card or small gift in an order placed within a week after the customer's birthday. This unexpected gesture brings genuine joy and creates a wow effect.

Common Mistakes to Avoid

  • Cliché templates. Phrases like “Happy Birthday, wishing you happiness and health” don’t work. Add your brand’s voice. Also avoid long, generic messages — short but personal greetings perform much better.
  • Sending too early or too late. It’s best to send the greeting on the birthday itself, or at most the day before or within 1–2 days after.
  • Spam. Don’t send the same message across all channels at once.
  • Empty greeting. If you’re not including a bonus or special offer, make sure the message is genuinely warm and heartfelt.

How to Automatically Send Birthday Greetings to Customers

Altcraft Platform makes it easy to send personalized birthday greetings automatically, right on time, and through the appropriate channel. Here’s how you can set it up:

1. Set up a birthday date trigger.

Define the condition that will launch the campaign. Set a filter based on the customer’s birth date — the condition being that the day and month match the current date. The platform will automatically search each day for customers celebrating their birthday and send the message.

2. Segment your audience.

Create segments based on age, interests, purchase history, or communication channel. This allows you to send more relevant birthday greetings — for example, offering younger customers a discount on trending products, while giving more mature audiences a gift for a significant purchase.

3. Choose the right delivery channel.

Altcraft supports omnichannel workflows: you can send birthday greetings via email, SMS, push notifications, or messengers. Choose the channel that works best for each specific segment.

4. Create a responsive email template.

Build the birthday email using the editor and include the key elements:

  • Subject and preheader — use personalized greetings with the customer’s name, mention the gift or bonus, and include a short birthday message.
Example: Happy Birthday! Your gift is inside — don’t miss it.
  • Header — include your company or brand logo.
  • Banner — a visual birthday greeting: an image or animation with a festive message and mention of the gift.
  • CTA button — a clear call to action, linking to the gift or displaying the promo code.
  • Main text — the greeting itself, tailored to your brand’s tone and audience, explaining the offer or promotion details.
For example: Hi, [Name]!
  • We’re wishing you a happy birthday and want to give you a little gift — a 20% off promo code, valid for just 5 days.* Use it on your favorite products or try something new — it’s up to you! Your promo code: WOW20
Bottom section (footer) — contact information and an unsubscribe link.
5. Launch the automated campaign.

The campaign will run daily without any manual input from you, and only subscribers whose birthday is today will receive it.

Conclusion

Wishing your customer a happy birthday isn’t just a polite gesture — it’s a powerful tool for building loyalty and boosting sales. Personalized, creative, and timely messages with valuable offers create an emotional connection with your brand and encourage purchases.

Use segmentation, multiple channels, and automation to make every birthday greeting unique and memorable. Give your customers more than just discounts — give them a positive emotional experience, and they’ll respond with trust and loyalty.

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